Making His House, Home: My Touching Story by @DirtyInPublic

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Making His House, Home: My Touching Story by @DirtyInPublic

 

There is a natural progression in most deepening relationships; where intimacy and time nurture a natural ease. Dates became over-nighters and the duffle bag that was once a fixture in my trunk has become lighter because there’s a home for my toothbrush and a dresser drawer he’s cleaned out for me. Despite his genuine hospitality, I continued to feel like a stranger in a strange land; his house didn’t feel like home. But the shitty part is, I couldn’t tell you why? During my extended stays, I did pretty much the same things as at my home. I pranced around in my panties, peed at will, and raided the fridge without restraint.

 

Until…it happened.

 

After an extraordinary weekend of fabulous food and magnificent sex, the inevitable happened; Monday arrived despite our best efforts. On this particular Monday, he had to leave at o’dark thirty for a business trip and I had the day off. He encouraged me to stay in bed and enjoy his place for as long as I desired. He must have silently slipped out, because when I woke he was gone. Still smelling his cologne in the air I glanced at the clock. I was frustrated to realize that, although I planned on sleeping in, I awoke at my typical hour. Damn! I yearned to go back to sleep but grew more irritated with each flip of the pillow and body toss. There was only one thing left to do in order to recapture sweet slumber; a sure fire technique with guaranteed results. I had to take matters into my own hands and…dare I say…masturbate. Now I’ve enjoyed digital stimulation in his home before but never flying solo. My overactive mind began to consider insanely improbable ‘what if’s’.  “What if he had cameras set-up?” “What if the walls could talk?” “What if he can see me with his mind’s eye?” Not allowing prudishness or uneasiness thwart my master plan to slumber the day away, I went for it. And just as predicted, while recovering from self stimulated jubilation, I quickly drifted to sleep.

 

Making His House, Home

 

A couple hours later I arose with a grin and new attitude. A heart doesn’t make a home, masturbation does! I remember clearly loving the moment when awkwardness gave way to relaxed comfort. I know what you may be thinking, but wait, what about solo ventures in hotel rooms? Not the same as your boyfriends pad. Giving yourself a hand when crashing in a temporary domicile  is more akin to a one night stand. The transient nature of hotel rooms create the perfect setting for trysts of every kind. For some reason, feeling relaxed enough in my boyfriend’s home to pursue singular fulfillment was the green light I needed to let down my guard and change the way I felt in this once strange land. I no longer felt like a visitor invading his inner sanctum; if the walls could talk, I was now a part of their unauthorized biography.

 

From that sleepy morning on, I considered his place my second home. Touching myself lead to deeper intimacy…not with myself but with my boyfriend; changing how we interacted within its walls. If you’re having a difficult time feeling at home at your lover’s …maybe all you need to do is relax and “love” yourself!

 


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14 Comments

  • QuickieChick
    June 25, 2012

    Ha! I like it! Definitely noted… 😉 xx

    • Marrie
      June 25, 2012

      Hi Quickie Chick. Would this go under the ‘girl’s gotta do, what a girl’s gotta do’ category? LOL!

  • Solo @ 30
    June 25, 2012

    After this last weekend’s efforts at my feeling a bit more comfy at the home of the new-ish boyfriend’s, this post made me smile…your way is *definitely* a different and much more hands-on approach than mine. Taking notes for further on down the line. 🙂

  • singledatingdiva
    June 25, 2012

    An innovator as always! An interesting approach that I will definitely keep it in mind!!

    • Marrie
      June 26, 2012

      You know I try, Single Dating Diva! Thanks for the comment 🙂

  • Seven Dates a Week
    June 26, 2012

    I love it! Marrie, you and I think just the same way!

    • Marrie
      June 26, 2012

      Great minds think alike my, friend!

  • Ms. Cheevious
    June 27, 2012

    HA! Now THAT was not what I expected! No… no repainting the walls to suit your color preference… LOL. GREAT POST!

    • Marrie
      June 28, 2012

      Don’t get me wrong…I love a good DIY project but this one was purely Ms.Cheevious! LOL! Thanks for love!

  • Lisa Jey Davis
    June 27, 2012

    What better way to make yourself at home than to masterbate and in-effect, mark your territory??!!! LOL Fabulous darling! XO

    • Marrie
      June 28, 2012

      Totally…didn’t think of it that way! But, yes, marking it is! Thanks for stopping by Lisa 🙂

  • According to Jewels
    June 28, 2012

    OH MY GOODNESS! I love it. Why have I never thought of this? Seriously this is greatness. I didn’t see that coming (no pun intended) when I started reading the post but this was perfect.

  • Marrie
    June 28, 2012

    Pun not intended… really?!? Seriously doubt that! I’m thrilled you liked it.

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